Wednesday 19 March 2014

Girls do Have feelings

Guys think that girls are heartless, they say no to their proposals right away. Well, it is not true! It hurts us to break hearts. It hurts to see that someone loves us and we can’t love them back. It has been happening since years, if you’re pretty, guys will propose you. While some of them would just be passing their time, others might be serious. It hurts to break their heart. I had other priorities when I was younger and people used to woo me. I did not pay heed. I still remember the faces of those guys in my school.

We can’t say yes to everyone out there. Neither do we have a criteria to select who is the right guy. It just happens when it has to happen. We don’t do such things intentionally. We don’t enjoy saying no or walking out of a relationship. If we are walking out, there must be something that has been hurting us very badly. We choose to keep ourselves happy instead of you. That’s why sometimes we give up on relationships. We value friendships, that’s why we ignore you when you propose us. We like to be friends, it’s not an excuse, we really want you to be the one who wipes our tears when a guy hurts us, not the one who does that!

Please stop treating us as objects. If it’s a pretty one, everyone would like to pick it up. If it doesn’t look good enough, nobody would want to take it along. Love us if you really mean it, don’t just make us your girlfriend, love who we are, love our dreams, our thoughts, our anger, our smile and we will make this world the most beautiful place for you to live! 

When You Love Some One

When you really love someone, there is no amount of distance
 between you two that can stop you from loving him or her.
 Real love doesn't just fade away or turn off like the switching
 on and off of a light, even though many of us would like for it
 to when things start to go wrong, or when the love you feel is
 causing you pain, but we must remember that there are always
 risks in giving someone your heart.

Instead of letting negative, or depressing emotional states rule

 your life when your relationships aren't going the way you like,
 give focus to the things that you can do to make the relationship 
function as healthily as possible. Just because your partner isn't
 next to you, doesn't mean that you can't make them feel loved. 
Give them some spontaneity in their life by just calling to tell them
 you love them every once in a while. Every relationship is hard work,
 including long distance relationships, and the key is to consistently show
 your love in different ways